Tuesday, November 11, 2008

apology

i'm willing to admit it. i've said pretty bad things about people on facebook. honestly, i think everyone who has a facebook most likely has at one point or another. i mean, you can always delete what you said and no one will be the wiser. not really. it never goes away and you look and feel awful.
i'd just want to apologize to all the people i've hurt through facebook. i'm pretty sure that i didn't mean over 90% of all the bad stuff i said. but the people i hurt didn't know that. i just want to say sorry.
i think all of us are guilty of this at one level or another. and even though this sounds totally cheesy and stupid, i really wish we all could get along. but thanks to human nature, that's impossible.
once again, i'm sorry for all the people i've hurt, even if i didn't mean to. i hope you guys will all understand how awful i feel about it now, especially after hearing how upset other people are.
i'm so sorry.
amelia

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

are u amelia now?

Anonymous said...

i thot they were being kinda harsh. it wuz just venting, and it wuz way better venting that way then venting to that person's face.

key word here: venting...aka wutever wuz said wuz prob not meant...not just 90%...99% more like.

Anonymous said...

um. anonymous two, talking about a person behind their back is no better than saying it to their face. it's actually worse. it shows that you are scared of what their reaction would be. If you can't say something to a person's face, you shouldn't say it at all. Venting does not make saying something ok. Angry or not It is definitely not ok. The people you are talking about have feelings and you should consider them before you do this kind of thing. If you really have a problem with someone then say it to their face. Because this belief that "venting is ok as long as its not to the person's face" is not true at all, and it could get you expelled from school if you are doing it online. Venting is basically just talking about someone behind their back. Not ok. At all.

Anonymous said...

to anonymous2: sounds a bit like you're venting online yourself here

Anonymous said...

WOOPS. meant "offended by anonymous 2" in the last post

Anonymous said...

"offended by anonymouse 2":
agree w/4th comment...and it's called gossiping. everyone does it, if u didnt that is amazing and i am extrememly jealous. bsides, if ppl r talking about u behind ur back, u shuld just b like "wutever" and brush it off. other ppl cant tell u who or wut u r...so y shuld wut they say matter?

bsides, venting is just letting off steam so that if u happen to meet that person the next day u wont b like omg i hate u. and its not like u even mean wut u say during a vent anyway. everybody shuld b aware of that.

**oh no, do i sense a debate starting lol

Anonymous said...

Sorry, I wasn't trying to come across as a "venting angry person looking for a debate", but after reading my post I realized that I sort of sounded like it. I apologize! What I was really trying to do is to explain to someone that there is nothing wrong with being angry with someone, maybe write it in a journal, or talk to a sibling or a good long-distance friend. Just don't bring other friends into issues that have nothing to do with them by gossiping. If you or your friends were being hurt by it...you probably wouldn't be saying that. I guess it's sortof difficult to explain. It's something you sortof have to feel on your conscience.

Anonymous said...

yo comprendo? but i guess if u accidentally tell it to someone who either wuznt as trustworthy as u thot he/she wuz, or someone carelessly left it for someone else to see...then someone's feelings can get hurt. but that is hardly ever the intention.

Anonymous said...

ya, i guess its ok to like try and get your feelings out (not publicly) if it is something someone actually DID to you, but if you are just making mean comments about something someone did that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU WHATSOEVER that isn't ok. Especially being mad about it. that is ridiculous

Anonymous said...

all i'm saying is that ppl trusted ppl, that trust wuz broken, and other ppl got hurt.

bsides, wut is the meaning of public these days?

Anonymous said...

once you hit send, there's no taking it back. by apologizing amy is showing that shes rly sorry but no one else seems to be